Why Is It So Hard To Find A Spouse?

“I think it is hard for some but not for others. For people who have social anxiety or difficulty making decisions, who don't get out enough, are easily discouraged, analytical, particular, or distracted, it is more difficult.”  –Joanne-75060

“I have all of those problems, and on top of that I'm being forced to live in the most ridiculous, masochistic, master-planned community that can be found in every suburban handbook ever created. It’s mid-30s yuppies and their kids and an endless array of BMWs and Mini Coopers. I'm fed up with it and the life of isolation I have to lead here. I'm trying to get out, and have an opportunity to, and I hope to God it works out.”  –Thomas-669718

“With all due respect to the Church, if it takes up half of your time or more, you may be single for a long time. When I go to daily Mass or Adoration, I rarely see women under 50.”   –Peter-449116

“It’s definitely harder for those of us with any kind of moral fiber to live in this society; there aren't a lot of us [chaste singles] left out there and the majority of people won't tolerate our morals.”  –Lindsey-297821

“If it were easy to find a life partner there wouldn't be sites like these. Know there's someone out there you're looking for that's looking for you.”  –Tom-432657

“God's gift is love and joy and He will provide the right moment – just be patient and enjoy each day as His gift.”  –Mary-25961

“I know some time we get frustrated, but it’s a lesson the Lord wants me to learn: patience, humility and most of all to see that I'm not the only one.”  —Alberto-546988

“Everything happens in His time, not ours. Keep praying and searching. Trust in His Will for you.”  —Maia-181886

“I've heard it said that when you stop looking it's when that special person will come to your life.”  –Helga-734689